AVOID THE BABY MAMMA DRAMA: BE THE BEST DAD

Any man can make a baby but it takes a real man to be a dad. If you do not want baby mamma drama I suggest you read on. 

After having a baby some parents tend to neglect their relationship and focus on the baby which can have dire consequences at the end. Before we can even start discussing what to do, you need to choose the right partner to have a child with or you will come to regret it. It needs to be someone who is the wifey type; i.e someone who will give your child(ren) love and nurturing.

Once you have a baby the relationship will also have to be nurtured. Remember that the greatest gift you can give your child is to love his/her mother. Every child wants to grow up in a loving and warm home where the parents love and respect one another, so choose well.

A baby in the home will mean change of routine and set up. This is a learning experience for both you and your partner and in most cases you will learn as you go. Just as great as you are, be supportive, reliable and the best dad and lover you can be.

As much as you would like to, eating junk food every night will not be good for anyone.Surprise mom by making her a home cooked meal for as long as she needs the help. There is no manual when it comes to a baby so the best way to learn is by shadowing mom, this will empower you when she is not home. Talking and singing to your baby is the best way to bond. Sometimes we ladies like to take over but it’s important as a father to not lay back, intervene and help out whenever possible.

It’s ok to negotiate sleeping in another room during the week and taking over in the weekend. After all dads have to stay productive at work even though I’m not sure how working mothers cope.

 Taking control as a dad will mean rewards in seeing your kids grow into responsible adults and rewarding you every day or atleast every father’s day lol.

Don't be like this Dad

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